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Dylan Thomas Vassallo

April 3, 1998 ~ August 4, 2015 (age 17) 17 Years Old
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Message from Beth Boylan
August 17, 2015 10:19 AM

My heartfelt condolences go to you, Julia, and your entire family. I'm so sorry for your loss, and I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. ~ Beth Boylan (RBC)
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Message from Nan
August 14, 2015 11:17 AM

Dear Dennis and Family,
I extend prayers, and Christ love to all of you.
I pray deep peace in all your hearts.
God's comfort will carry you through.
Dylan was a living Angel indeed. I never had the honor of meeting Him, but how I see he helped so many people!
Much love and light
Nan
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Message from Mike Zupko
August 12, 2015 1:10 AM

The first time I met Dylan was at the Bennett Track & Field camp right before freshman year. Coming from a different school than the rest of the campers, I was nervous that I would not make any friends; nonetheless, Dylan was the first to introduce himself to me and include me in conversation with fellow campers. His friendliness helped me realize that if the rest of the incoming freshman at CBA were as welcoming as Dylan, then I made the right choice to attend CBA. For the next three years, we shared the same homeroom and sat next to each other in junior year religion class. He always lent a helping hand if needed, and his humor brightened the dull moments. He was a model student-athlete and one of the first friends I made at CBA. Unfortunately I could not say my final goodbyes as I was out of the state; however, my thoughts and prayers go out to him and his family. I will truly miss him.
Message from DEM
August 11, 2015 9:27 PM

I had the great pleasure and honor of spending a week in Honduras with a remarkable young man, Dylan - a gentleman, an intellect, and gentle soul with an incredible bright future. I will never forget the conversations I had with him on the bus especially our two hour talk during movie night! I've only known him for a very short period of time but it is amazing how quickly I got to see his great qualities and the impact he has made on me. I will always remember you, Dylan! Rest in peace my good man.
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A candle was lit by Barbara Dutton on August 11, 2015 5:09 PM
Our hearts are broken for you. May you find peace in God's light. Love, Barbara, Daniel and Jessica Viola
Message from connie daly
August 11, 2015 3:15 PM

Danielle... I am SO sorry to hear about your son... My prayers are with you and your family.

Connie from
Sheldon Ave.
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Message from Bishop O'Connell
August 10, 2015 12:38 PM

I wish to offer my heartfelt sympathy and prayers to the Vassallo family at this time of grief and loss. I will remember Dylan and all the family at Mass. May the Lord lead him home to heaven.

Bishop David O'Connell
Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton
Message from Ann Marie Dowd
August 10, 2015 7:25 AM

Dear Dennis and family,

My heart goes out to you and your family at this very sad time. May God give you and your family the strength to get through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely, Ann Marie (Tagliaferro) Dowd
Message from Mary Miele
August 10, 2015 7:16 AM

Dear Danielle and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God bless,
Mary Miele
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A candle was lit by Michele Kelly on August 9, 2015 10:08 PM
Our heartfelt sympathy to Danielle, Dennis, Julia & Dennis during this difficult time. May you find strength in one another knowing that Dylan will always be with you and forever in your ❤ Continued prayers and ((hugs)) today & always.
The Kelly Family (Alex CBA '16)
Message from Robbie Hall
August 9, 2015 9:35 PM

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Message from liberta macco
August 9, 2015 6:45 PM

Dear Danielle and family,
I was saddened to hear about the loss of your son, Dylan. My heart goes out to you. You now have an angel watching over all of you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Liberta Macco and family
Message from the Corneiros
August 9, 2015 4:46 PM

Danielle, Dennis, Julia and Dennis,
It is with such a heavy heart that we extend our most heartfelt sympathies to you...we had the privilege of having Dylan at our house for sleepovers and knowing such a fine boy is a best friend to my son Ty....he will always be in our hearts and minds, as will all of you. It was a pure pleasure when he came over, that million dollar smile always made us smile in return....may he rest in peace in Gods arms until you meet again--we are here should you need anything but know he loved you all

Ed, Debbie, Ty, Sonja, Dean and Daxx Corneiro
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August 9, 2015 1:41 PM

LIsa, Betty and Nicky purchased the Delicious Delights Basket for the family of Dylan Thomas Vassallo.
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A candle was lit by Miller on August 9, 2015 12:03 PM
Our prayers and deepest condolences - may Dylan be at eternal peace.
The Miller Family (James Miller - Class of 2015)
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A candle was lit by DiGiaro on August 9, 2015 7:35 AM
Our Prayers go out to the Vassallo family. My Dylan find eternal peace and rest in God's love.
The DiGiaro family (Zach DiGiaro class of 2016)
Message from Karen Puga
August 9, 2015 7:14 AM

My heart is heavy wth sadness to learn of Dylan's passing. It has been a privilege to have this fine young man in homeroom and as a student in class. He was kind, respectful, and had a profound spirit sensitive to others. The charity that Dylan practiced by helping the people of Honduras who are so much in need is so dear to the Heart of Our Lord. It is my prayer at Mass that Dylan will be with Him and that his family, friends and the CBA community will find consolation and peace. I give thanks to God for him and will always remember him.

Karen Puga
Message from Patricia Golden-Gartner
August 9, 2015 9:48 AM

I agree I agree with Dylan's teacher's comment. I too witnessed the many gifts of this sensitive and caring young man! Dylan volunteered many times, with his friends from CBA, at the Schroth School in Wanamassa. I watched him work with our special population of children, who experience profound physical challenges, on a daily basis. Unlike many others who walk into our facility, Dylan was able to come in, make our children feel special, and above all, he was kind, compassionate, and saw NO DIFFERENCES!! My congratulations to Dylan's parents, for raising this extraordinary individual; you obviously taught him what is important in life! My prayers are with all of the Vassallo family. I can imagine what you are going through, as we lost our nephew, my sister's son Kristopher, five years ago. I have asked my Kris to look out for Dylan in heaven, and I am confident Dylan will now have a new friend in God's home! It will be a long journey, but you will find peace, Mr. & Mrs. Vassallo. God is good and will get you through this; He too, knows how great the world would be today, if there were more like your son-----to warm the heart and touch the soul, with all the good Dylan has done!! The students and staff at the Schroth School loved Dylan, and ALL of our hearts go out to you and your extended family. Patricia Golden-Gartner---Community Out-Reach Liaison & Educator---Schroth School.
Message from Hannah DiMarsico
August 8, 2015 11:49 PM

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Message from Jody Umans
August 8, 2015 10:57 PM

Dear Danielle, Dennis and family,
Although we did not know your oldest son, it is clear that he was an outstanding young man. There are no words that will ease your pain, but trust in knowing that he is now a guardian angel to you all as he watches over you every day. May he rest in peace. Jody and Andrew Umans and family.
Message from Robbie Hall
August 8, 2015 10:55 PM

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Message from Trish Fitzpatrick
August 8, 2015 6:53 PM

With deepest sympathies from your friends at Saint Peter's Prep.
Message from Kathy Fitzsimmons
August 8, 2015 1:05 PM

May God bless Dylan and all of his family and friends. Although I do not know you, please know that many are praying for you. Our deepest condolences.

Kathy Fitzsimmons
parent, high school teacher, wife and sister-in-law of CBA alumni and daughter -in-law of former CBA deacon and guidance counselor
August 8, 2015 10:26 AM

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Message from Teri Aniello
August 8, 2015 10:17 AM

Dear Dennis Danielle Julia and Dennis so very very sorry to hear about Dylan's passing a lot of fond memories of all of the Vassallo children especially Dylan who was so sweet and respectful I saw him grow up to be a beautiful young man. It was such a soft kind child and became a compassionate giving loving young man my heart goes out to all of you you are all in my prayers
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A candle was lit by Teri Aniello on August 8, 2015 10:12 AM
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August 8, 2015 8:48 AM

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August 8, 2015 7:11 AM

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Message from jen dennis
August 8, 2015 12:04 AM

Dear Danielle, Dennis & Family,
Our sincere condolences go out to your entire family. There are no words that can help but May you find the strength to get through this time in need and know that nothing but love and prayers are in our thoughts for you.
With sympathy,
Bobby & Jennifer Dennis
August 7, 2015 9:44 PM

Divine Peace Bouquet was purchased for the family of Dylan Thomas Vassallo.
August 7, 2015 9:38 PM

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Message from Melissa Strouse
August 7, 2015 8:08 PM

I am so saddened to hear of Dylan's passing. I have fond memories of teaching Dylan 8th grade math. He had a natural math ability. He could quickly come up with answers and his hand would always be up ready to share them with the class. His big smile, full of braces, would beam back at me when he was missing homework or didn't get a test signed. It was hard to ever get upset with him. Dylan was kind, respectful, bright and a pleasure to teach and know. I wish I had the magic words to help ease your pain. I will keep your family in my prayers as you continue on this journey towards healing.
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A candle was lit by Liz on August 7, 2015 7:54 PM
Sending loving thoughts and prayers during this sad time. So sorry for the loss of a beautiful young man.
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A candle was lit by Angela Allora on August 7, 2015 3:43 PM
As a mother of two CBA graduates, I send my deepest sympathy to the Vassallo family. I was deeply distressed to read the announcement in this morning's paper. I hope that this note of caring sends you some measure of comfort. God bless you and send you peace and comfort. Angela Allora mother of Anthony and Daniel Lombardino (1992 & 1994).
Message from silvana buckley
August 7, 2015 3:37 PM

My heart is hurting. I watched him grow into a handsome young man through the years, as one of the children in my church community. He was a handsome young man. I remember when he started CBA he took my daughter Clare to his first dance. I have and will continue to keep his family in my prayers. God be with them.
Message from Audrey and Peter Hegel
August 7, 2015 3:26 PM

Danielle, Dennis, Julia and Dennis,

We are heartbroken by the tragic loss of Dylan, such a beautiful young man inside and out. There are no words, only prayers, love and support for your entire family and the many lives Dylan touched in his much too short time here with us.
This world's loss is heaven's gain.

Audrey and Peter Hegel
Message from Teri Aniello
August 7, 2015 4:31 PM

Dear Danille Dennis Julia and Dennis, I am heartbroken and so truly sorry to hear about Dylan's passing. Knowing Dylan as a young boy and seeing him. Grow to a compassionate and loving man there are no words to express to all of you. I am deeply honored to have known Dylan and all of you for so many years. What presence he had. I will never forget him It was my priviledge to have known him and all of my beautiful Vassallo Family With Love...Teri Aniello
August 7, 2015 3:12 PM

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August 7, 2015 2:20 PM

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Message from The Dinnell Family
August 7, 2015 2:16 PM

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August 7, 2015 1:34 PM

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Message from Dylan Thomas Van Sickell
August 7, 2015 1:26 PM

For the past three years I sat alongside Dylan every morning in homeroom. We shared a common bond in that both our names are Dylan Thomas and our last names begin with V. We often joked that we were long lost brothers. Now I realize that it wasn't a joke. Dylan was a great friend, and brother. I will miss him dearly, and my mornings at cba will seem a little less whole. I am so sorry for your loss, I will always remember Dylan.
Message from Michele
August 7, 2015 1:00 PM

My heart goes out to the family for this beautiful young man. I'm deeply saddened by your loss. God Bless
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Message from The Magliozzi family
August 8, 2015 11:56 AM

May his family keep his memories in their hearts forever. He was a wonderful young man who stood out in the crowd. Always respectful and kind. He will be missed. May he rise into heaven with open arms.
Message from Ina Wishman
August 7, 2015 2:27 PM

So very sorry for your loss.
Message from Mary Clare Garber
August 7, 2015 2:27 PM

What a beautiful young man with a tremendous smile.
May you find some comfort in love from friends, support from your communities and god's grace. As part of the CBA community, I send my prayers and am here in support.
Mary Clare Garber
Message from Sandy Mihovich
August 7, 2015 1:03 PM

So very sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your precious son. May your faith in God comfort your family during this most difficult time. My prayers and thoughts are with you all xoxoxo
Message from Edward W.
August 7, 2015 12:49 PM

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Message from Nanette Turner
August 7, 2015 12:48 PM

Dear Dennis, Danielle, Julia & Dennis, We are so sorry for your loss. Prayers go out to you for hope, peace and strength. With Love, Nanette, Rich, Mathew, Emma & Michael
Message from dina
August 7, 2015 12:09 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family everyday. Although I didn't personally know Dylan, having a son the same age and a member of the CBA Family , it hurts me so deeply to learn of this tragedy. May you find the strength through God's love to go on when you are ready. Know that there are many friends to support you in this time of need.
May Dylan Rest in Peace
Message from Beth Caruso
August 7, 2015 7:12 PM

As a member of the CBA community, my family and I are deeply saddened by this tragedy. Dylan was not personally known to us, but everything I have heard about this beautiful young man was amazing. May Dylan now rest in peace with God and may his family find strength during this very difficult time.
St. John the Baptist de La Salle, pray for us.
Live Jesus in our hearts forever.
August 7, 2015 12:00 PM

Peaceful White Lilies Basket was purchased for the family of Dylan Thomas Vassallo.
Message from Michael Ferraro
August 7, 2015 11:54 AM

My thoughts are with your family and especially you, Jules.

Michael Ferraro
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August 7, 2015 11:02 AM

Geo & Mary McGowan, Lance & Denise O'Connell, Frances Suppa purchased the Blooming Garden Basket for the family of Dylan Thomas Vassallo.
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August 7, 2015 10:55 AM

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Message from Tony Ottati
August 7, 2015 10:12 AM

Dennis, Danielle, Julia and Dennis, there are no words I can offer to express my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Dylan is an amazing young man. My thoughts and prayers are with Dylan and your family. May he be your guardian angel and rest upon your shoulders until you meet again.

Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord,
and let perpetual light shine upon him.
May the soul of the faithfully departed,
through the mercy of God,
Rest in Peace. Amen

August 7, 2015 9:14 AM

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Message from evelyn cote
August 7, 2015 6:46 AM

May your family find the courage and strength to move forward in peace and to know that Dylan was a life well-lived and loved by all who knew him. My prayers are with your family.
August 6, 2015 11:55 PM

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A candle was lit by Michael Braun on August 6, 2015 8:23 PM
So very sorry for your loss. I remember that Dennis spoke so highly of his brother.
August 6, 2015 5:58 PM

Sweetest Sunrise Bouquet was purchased for the family of Dylan Thomas Vassallo.
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August 6, 2015 5:51 PM

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Message from MLK
August 6, 2015 4:46 PM

Mere weeks ago, in mid-July, I was privileged to accompany an extraordinary group of approximately 40 high school students and recent high school graduates on an eight day adventure to build schools and housing for orphaned and impoverished children of Honduras. Dylan and his inseparable comrade, Matt, shared a dorm and bunks with me and with Dennis Mojares, the other adult chaperone for the Monmouth County kids, and four other young men.

We and all the other young ladies and men worked hard together in the hot sun, beginning on the Sunday that we arrived and straight through the week, alongside local workers that we learned from and admired as much for their playful spirits as for their incredible strength and stamina. After each workday, we joined alongside the local villagers and their children, making friends, marveling in the smiles of the children despite their circumstances, and competing in numerous friendly but well-battled soccer matches. In the evenings, we engaged in thoughtful ‘circle talks’ to consider and debate possible solutions, to help these kind people and their defenseless children meet the unimaginable everyday challenges. And after that, Dylan and his many new friends 'were just kids' - - playing board games, sharing laughs and practical jokes, talking, flirting and making memories until well past Midnight almost every night.

During our closing remarks in the Hostel the morning before we all traveled, both Dennis and I were unable to control our emotions because we were so moved by the astonishing maturity, energy, love and compassion of each and every one of the remarkable and selfless young men and ladies that had worked so hard, suffered so much and made such a difference to so many of the Honduran children and families that they touched that week.

And it was Dylan, yes, our roomie Dylan, who first approached us afterward, as would a shy 12 year old with an ‘aw shucks’ shuffle, but with his huge smile beaming, to tell us both “you know, I just gotta hug you two.”

It was at that moment, with his defenses down and all surface flaws cast aside, flaws that each and every one of us have and hide, that I observed the tenderness and vulnerability within his soul. It pierced my heart then, and tears it apart now.

Those were the last words we exchanged.

Thank you, Dylan, for living your last weeks in service of others.

I am very proud of everything I knew you to stand for and fight for.

- Anonymous, Students Helping Honduras July 2015 Participant
Message from Jeanne Newman
August 6, 2015 3:51 PM

Our Sincerest Condolences and prayers for healing, God Bless you all. - The Newman Family
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August 6, 2015 3:11 PM

Frado & Caroline & Family purchased the Mrs. Fields Deluxe Sympathy Basket for the family of Dylan Thomas Vassallo.
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August 6, 2015 2:52 PM

Anthony and Laura Loiacono purchased the Joyful Memory for the family of Dylan Thomas Vassallo.
Message from Robbie Hall
August 6, 2015 2:22 PM

He always had a smile on his face. Can't imagine the pain his family is going through. We are all heart broken.

With love,
Jeremy, Arielle, Clifford and Robbie Hall
Message from Theresa Zippo
August 6, 2015 1:48 PM

Dennis, Danielle, Julia and Dennis,
There are no words to express our heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Sharing a part of Dylan's childhood is something we will always remember with a smile, remembering good times growing up in the neighborhood. He was always a pleasure to have around, with his great big smile and dry sense of humor which we all enjoyed. Such a wonderful young man who made a great impact on all those he knew as well as those he helped. I have so many photographs of Dylan with Phil, Lauren and Michaela from over the years and will always treasure them and remember fun times with him. I wish your family strength and peace as you heal together going forward.
Our hearts are with you.
Theresa, Phil, Lauren and Michaela Zippo
Message from Shari Spellman
August 6, 2015 5:01 PM

Our hearts and prayers are with your family.
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August 6, 2015 1:44 PM

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Message from Brittany Heckel
August 6, 2015 1:18 PM

Prayers for Dylan's family and friends from Texas... I am so sorry for your loss.
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A candle was lit by mike wicklund on August 6, 2015 12:35 PM
Our deepest condolences. Dylan and your family will be in our prayers.

The Wicklund Family
Message from Maria Elena Crowley
August 6, 2015 11:54 AM

Dear Dennis and Danielle, I cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of this young man whose smile will forever be in my heart. I feel so blessed for knowing him and having had the opportunity to work with him. You are truly two of the most genuine and kind people I know. Please know, the two of you and Julia and Dennis are in my thoughts and will remain in my prayers.
Message from Maria Elena Crowley
August 6, 2015 11:50 AM

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A candle was lit by Madeline Kotov on August 6, 2015 11:05 AM
Dear Dennis, Danielle, Julia and Dennis

Our Sincere Condolences for your tragic loss. We pray that you will give each other comfort and find peace as you heal together as a family. May Dylan's beautiful soul Rest In Peace.

With Love and Sympathy,
Madeline & Chuck Kotov
August 6, 2015 10:37 AM

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August 6, 2015 10:10 AM

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August 6, 2015 10:03 AM

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August 6, 2015 9:24 AM

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August 6, 2015 8:32 AM

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