Ian Alistair Oliver

April 30, 1990 ~ December 15, 2021 (age 31)



Ian Alistair Oliver, 31, passed away from diabetic shock with his loving mother and step father by his side on December 15th, 2021 in Burlington, Vermont.


Ian was born April 30, 1990 in Sleepy Hollow, New York to Ouida & Scott Oliver. He grew up in Middletown NJ and graduated from Red Bank Catholic High School in 2008.  Ian then attended the University of Vermont and graduated in 2012 with a Bachelor of Arts Degree.  He also received the distinguished Renaissance Award at graduation from the Performing Arts Department.  He was a lifelong performer, producer, actor, artist, dancer and singer.


Ian was an avid lacrosse and baseball player, President of RBC Ski Club, and member of the Performing Arts Club.  He performed in countless plays and musicals.


After college, Ian pursued his passion and moved to Chicago where he performed and produced music for 7 years.


Ian is survived by his mother Ouida Oliver and Christopher Stone of Middletown NJ, his father Scott Oliver of Guatemala, and his sister Catherine Oliver of Denver Colorado.  He also leaves behind his devoted chocolate lab Duchess St. Lawrence, as well as aunts, uncles and cousins who loved him dearly.


Ian was predeceased by his maternal grandparents, Dorothy and Roger Tharpe of Central Square, NY and paternal grandparents Ronald and Marion Oliver of London.


Ian had a warm heart, beautiful smile, kind soul and was a compassionate friend to many, especially his sister Catherine (Cat). He will be greatly missed.


Viewing and visitation for Ian will be held on Sunday, December 26th, from 3:00 - 6:00 pm at John E. Day Funeral Home, 85 Riverside Ave, Red Bank, NJ   


A funeral mass will follow on Monday December 27th, at 10:00 am at Mary Mother of God in New Monmouth, NJ.


In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Ian’s name to the American Diabetes Association via or (1-800-DIABETES [342-2383]).



To send flowers to Ian's family, please visit our floral store.


December 26, 2021

3:00 PM to 6:00 PM
John E. Day Funeral Home
85 Riverside Avenue
Red Bank, New Jersey 07701

December 27, 2021

10:00 AM to TBD
Mary Mother of God Church
19 Cherry Tree Farm Road
Middletown, NJ 07748

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